Vietnam in the heart of a Frenchwoman

At the event, Coudert, who used to work as a medical secretary, enthusiastically shared the story of ‘my Vietnam’ and explained how Vietnam gave her the most beautiful gift, her adopted son, some 30 years ago.

The launch of the work, titled ‘Việt Nam của tôi – Những câu chuyện nhận con nuôi’ (My Vietnam – Adoption Stories), was held on the afternoon of October 15 at Nha Nam Book N’Coffee in Ho Chi Minh City, part of Nha Nam Publishing And Communications Joint Stock Company.

Flanked by her adopted son Rémi-Vinh (Do Tran Vinh) and several other important relatives in Vietnam, Coudert emotionally shared her heartfelt and beautiful memories of Vietnam for nearly two hours.

“I first met my adopted son 30 years ago when he was just three weeks old,” she recalled.

“When I took him to France, I was very sad because I had to say goodbye to other children in the area at that time, including many disabled kids.

“I love and missed them so much, so I promised myself that I would come back and take care of them when I retired.

“At the orphanage, I played with them, massaged them, and took care of their meals.

“As a babysitter, I did such simple tasks to show my gratitude to Vietnam.”

Although she has only one adopted child, Coudert said she would like to tell the stories of many other Vietnamese children adopted by French families as well.

With the goal of telling stories of children who had a second hometown and were loved by that hometown, she decided to write the book and finished it after more than two years. 

“More than a year ago, my friend told me they wanted to translate my book into Vietnamese,” said the author.

“I was touched and surprised because I did not think my book could attract the attention of others.

“I am so grateful for this.”

Rémi-Vinh, who attended the event to launch his adoptive mother’s book, said emotionally, “Due to COVID -19, I have not been able to return to Vietnam for more than two years, but I still keep in touch with my fiancée in Vietnam. I am very touched every time I return to my homeland.”

Rémi-Vinh said that in France he supports the Hoa Lua Association to help children in need.

He often talks with Vietnamese adopted children because they have many things in common.

“I know I am lucky because my adoptive mother is a person who loves Vietnam,” Rémi-Vinh said.

“My mother often tells me about Vietnam.

“She took me on a visit to Vietnam when I was just three years old.

“Thanks to her openness, I know that I was a Vietnamese son being adopted at a very young age.

“There are two cultures in my heart and I feel comfortable and happy with that.”

As a co-translator of Coudert’s book, Associate Professor Dr. Tran Thi Hao shared what moved her to translate this work, “I was very touched by the way Coudert narrates in the book and her love for Vietnam. She loves orphaned and disabled children and often makes trips to Vietnam to support them.”

According to Hao, Coudert founded the Hoa Lua Association in 2006 to promote Vietnamese culture in France and connect families who have adopted Vietnamese children.

She spends two months each year in Vietnam learning Vietnamese. During that time, she takes a bus to the orphanage to care for the children there.

“I hope the emotional story of this admirable, dedicated French friend will be appreciated by many readers,” co-translator Hao said. 

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